Thursday, February 23, 2012

14. Wishful Thinking (II)


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Hopefully, everybody has tried their own answers and read the common lies people tell (in the poster). So, time to fulfil the promise: let's unveil the best (or most appropriate) answers, according to the text. In this case, all of them are, to a greater or a lesser degree, linked to conclusions based on statistics and, let’s be honest: we live in a world built on statistics for ... as much as nine out of ten of our affirmations – if we include this one, of course!

So, according to the passage, a 'white lie' seems to be a lie told in order to avoid offending someone. Other scenarios have been displayed in the comments to the post, for it is difficult to decide on telling the truth in extreme cases.

Research suggests that women are better at telling less serious lies than men are. I should add that this may well be the topic of a separate blog, so the theme will only partially be tackled.
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One reason people sometimes rub their noses when they lie is that the nose is sensitive to physical changes caused by lying. There’s no denying by now that all research has offered sufficient evidence of the fact.

It would appear from the passage that there is no simple way of finding out if someone is lying. No comment.

In fact, why should people insist so much on being told the truth (the whole truth, and nothing but the truth)? Why shouldn’t there be this other alternative (Tell me lies/Tell me sweet little lies/Tell me, tell me lies) which would paint our days in different hues, and make us smile for no particular reason?
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It seems it’s human nature, and that’s all there is to it. No wonder then that people (and manufacturers) go to great pains to satisfy such a special need, like in the advertisement below:
LIE BUSTER
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[adapted from New Success at First Certificate,  
by Robert O’Neill, Michael Duckworth & Kathy Gude]

A MIRACLE OF MODERN ELECTRONICS
At last … (1) to modern technology, there is a way to find … (2) if people are telling the truth. The Liebuster … (3) just like an ordinary watch, but in … (4) it’s far more … (5) that! In … (6) to telling the time, it buzzes when it detects a lie. The … (7) the lie, the bigger the buzz. You will find it in­valuable … (8) you're at home or at work. It is by … (9) the smallest, most accurate, lie-detector ever made. It measures the stress in people's voices by … (10) of high-tech microchips. In business negotiations, it will … (11) you if people are being … (12) with you. At … (13) it can warn you if your girlfriend or boyfriend is lying when they tell you what they did that weekend when you were … (14) on business.
Never … (15) has such an elec­tronic miracle been … (16) at such a low price. So get … (17) now while stocks … (18). Hurry! Don't … (19)! Nobody can do … (20) the Liebuster, the miracle of modern high- tech electronics!

  • Here are ten of the missing words. Where do they belong? Can you guess the other ten?
addition – before – dishonest – far –last – means – out – than – wait/delay - yours/one


3 comments:

  1. Dear Eugenia,
    Last december I was in Collodi, a small town where Carlos Collodi was born. He is well know as the author of Pinocho´s tales, a great story based on the nature of human being. In the center of the village the visitors can find the Pinocchio Park, with beatiful and funny examples about lies... and famous noses
    http://www.pinocchio.it/park.htm
    After my first day meeting I had a dream with a blue dragon flying in the sky. I know, because a witch from Toscana region told me, "the blue dragon like the horse knocking at the home´s door meaning good luck.
    Keep in touch
    Luis (the only one)

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    1. You've got a point there, "The One and Only"! Even Carl Gustav Jung said in his memoires that the moment we DREAM of an entity that we got to know through imagination is the moment that entity, and its significance, passes on into our conscience...

      There's this story told by Fouadh Ibn Habbaas (in Ted Chiang's short story "The Merchant and the Alchemist's Gate") to the Caliph about the former's experience of trying to find the meaning of life: he crossed the Alchemist's Gate into his past, and into his future. After listening to the podcast several times, I dreamt of the story teller embodied in Fouadh, who would accompany me everywhere, patiently recounting the story so that I might understand once and for all!

      Let's dedicate our conversation to everybody else, shall we? Whoever has clues for the way to deal with truth, lies, reality and imagination is welcome.

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  2. It´s a beautiful song!! thank you, Rita

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